✦ Consent Quiz

Consent Self-Assessment

How clear is your approach to consent?

8 questions to reflect on your communication and consent practices. There are no right or wrong answers — only honest ones.

01 / 08

Before trying something new with a partner, you typically...

Just go for it — spontaneity is part of the excitement

Read their mood and adjust as you go

Have an explicit conversation first

02 / 08

Your partner says "I'm not sure about that." You...

Gently try to persuade them — they might enjoy it

Slow down and ask what they'd prefer instead

Stop completely and give them space to think

03 / 08

During an intense moment, you notice your partner seems tense or unusually quiet. You...

Continue — they'd speak up if something was really wrong

Slow down and watch their reaction carefully

Pause, name what you noticed, and ask directly

04 / 08

How easy is it for you to say "no" or "stop" to a partner in an intimate situation?

Difficult — I worry about disappointing or upsetting them

I can do it, though it sometimes feels awkward

Completely comfortable — it's a non-negotiable right

05 / 08

After an intense session, you and your partner...

Don't usually discuss it — what happened, happened

Talk if something felt off

Always debrief: how did we each feel? What worked, what didn't?

06 / 08

If you change your mind about something mid-session, you...

Keep going to avoid disrupting the moment

Hesitate, then eventually say something

Speak up immediately — consent can be withdrawn at any point

07 / 08

Before starting something new with someone, setting explicit limits feels...

Unnecessary — it kills the spontaneity

Useful with new partners, less important with someone I know well

Essential every time — it's what creates real safety

08 / 08

In your understanding, consent is...

A "yes" given at the start of an encounter

Something to check in on if things escalate

An ongoing, active process that can change at any moment